Parenting: Talk to children thoughtfully, these things have a bad effect on them..

Raising children is the responsibility of parents, which is not an easy task. Parents have to teach their children the right things along with discipline. It is said that children are like blank paper, on which parents, society, and family members fill colors. Children have a great impact on the environment around them. In such a situation, what you are talking to your children about also matters a lot. To keep children disciplined or to improve them, we often say such things to them, which leaves a negative impression on their tender minds. In the long run, such things also affect the behavior and ability of children. So let us know about those things which should never be said to children.

You always make the wrong decision.

Do not punish your child for being immature. Every person makes mistakes and learns from them. Your child may have chosen a subject for study in which you are not interested or is working in a company that you are not very proud of. But this does not mean that you blame your child for his decision. As a parent, your job is to guide the child. Do not impose your views on the children.

I wish I had killed you as soon as you were born.

When parents are upset with their children, they often say these sentences in anger. Similarly, many times parents say such things laughingly to make the child realize his mistake. But this also has a bad effect on the child's mind. We often think that things like self-respect are found only in adults. But the truth is that small children also have self-respect, which is hurt, which has a bad effect on their subconscious mind. Therefore, never say these sentences to children, no matter how big a mistake they have made.

You are not beautiful.

Many times, we show discrimination in our children without even wanting to. Do not compare your child with any other child. Do not make such comparisons that the other child is smarter or more beautiful than your son or daughter. This will develop an inferiority complex in the child. He will not even talk nicely to the child with whom he is being compared.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

This statement in itself is very harsh, and saying this to any child is completely wrong. Many children are so naughty that they do not listen to anyone. But this does not mean that you should speak to your child in this manner. There can be other ways to explain the difference between good and bad to children.

You always make me sad.

Many times it happens that children do something that their parents do not like. They act against them. Children do not do this knowingly; yes, some children do this knowingly. But saying such sentences will make your child feel bad about his decision. He may fulfill your demands to make you happy, but in this way, you are snatching away his right to be happy. Let your children make their own decisions.

Your brother or sister is better than you.

Many times parents are found telling their children that you can never become like your brother/sister/friend or that the neighbour's child is better than you. It is not right to say such negative things in front of children. Every child has their own ability and capacity. The child works and makes decisions accordingly. Therefore, you should not compare your child to anyone else. This creates a feeling in the child's mind that he can never do well.

Feeling of obesity

You are on a diet or want to reduce your weight, this is fine. But do not express this in front of children. Children become unnecessarily cautious about their weight and do not eat properly. Therefore, do not stand in front of them on the weighing machine again and again and do not tell them that these days you are engaged in a campaign to reduce weight.

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